Learn what it takes to ensure a happy marriage in just 24 sessions!
Make your marriage peaceful lasting and set an ideal example for your children
How many times have you seen a girl going all out in preparing for her wedding?
Long guest lists are made and parents turn their pockets inside out to get the perfect dowry, the perfect venue, the perfect food, the perfect dress and of course the perfect groom. Yet, despite all their efforts the marriage barely lasts a few years.
The ‘perfect’ boy is revealed to be abusive, or he does not understand his responsibility of protecting his wife from people around them, or he doesn’t earn anything or loses any motivation to do so when he loses his job.
Circumstances are different; he is sometimes called out as a cheater, who breaks his wife’s heart multiple times. All this will either result in divorce or the girl will be stuck in an unhappy marriage forever.
We understand how heart-breaking these situations are and we are here to help you avoid and even remedy unhappy marriages.
There’s a simple reason to why this happens in our society. Instead of preparing for a happy marriage, we are all busy preparing for a happy wedding.
Instead of preparing for the wedding events we should put in more efforts to prepare the bride for the years ahead of the event.
Our mentors believe that there’s a difference between marriage and wedding and help prepare for the former rather than the one-day event. And for those of you who are already married, we help you realign things to achieve excellence in your marriage.
Our mentors have carefully crafted a course, Marriage Matters that will help you do just that.
We have successfully concluded 4 batches of Marriage Matters and have been able to help more than 70 women and girls who were either trapped in unhappy, unfulfilling marriages or were fearful of getting married. They were able to make their marriages loving and peaceful or get ready to enter into the bond of marriage with ease and happiness.
The 5th batch of this program is starting on 11 September 2023.
“I was very disturbed and was looking for a counselor. I did not want to get married and had a bad relationship with my sister in law. I was a control freak, due to which I often felt helpless and spent a lot of time crying. My brother signed me up for this course and I ended up doing it without even wanting to. I understood that this course was important for both married and unmarried girls. I believed I could not become a good daughter either and this course helped me become that and more. I let go of my limiting beliefs and was able to complete the course with the help of my course mates and mentors. “
A review from a participant of Batch 1
What is MARRIAGE MATTERS all about?
Module 1 – Get to Know the Purpose of Marriage
This will take 3 sessions and our mentors will help you figure out the why behind achieving a healthy marriage.
Together they will help you explore common perspectives of marriage and see what the Qur’an has to say about it.
You will also learn about the respective roles of each spouse in ensuring that the needs of their partner are met.
You will learn what a successful marriage should look like and how to work on your personal problems that are keeping your marriage from becoming successful.
This module will help girls determine what they should look for in a potential husband and will help married women set their goals and start taking steps to a better marriage.
“Allhumdullilah that Allah guided me to this online course. I was able to discuss my problems comfortably and solve them.“
A review from a participant of Batch 4
Module 2 – Ignite your Hidden Spark
You might have caught yourself before marriage, wondering whether your husband will be expressive or not? Or perhaps you are a married woman actually stuck with an inexpressive man.
This is common and normal as well.
Our mentors make Marriage Matters a real game changer in this regard.
Our mentors help you learn what it takes to get your spouse to praise you and do special things for you. A lot of women struggle with that and feel unhappy.
With 2 sessions in this module you will easily identify all your hidden talents and make the most use of the abilities Allah has blessed you with to build a happy marriage.
You will then get the praise you deserve! You will understand the meaning of ‘marriage as an institution’ and the key difference between a ‘house and a maskan’.
You will also learn about all the different needs you and your spouse have that must be fulfilled to attain maximum contentment and peace in your married life.
We’ll empower you over how many of these needs you can fulfill without your spouse and how many must be fulfilled by your spouse. This will be a core topic of discussion.
Module 3 – Toolkit for Your Personal Empowerment
Encountering conflicts with your spouse or in laws is normal, but you need not to lose yourself during that.
Our mentors in this module will equip you with the right tools to deal with the challenges and conflicts that riddle your married life.
Some of the many things we will discuss in this module include:
Self Esteem
With low self esteem, you will always remain a people pleaser.
When Your happiness is compromised you will always feel insecure.
Through this course you will be able to become more confident so that you can ensure your happiness and others’ too and can build a marriage based on understanding, commitment and love.
Temperament Challenges
Anger, resentment and unreleased emotions can be destructive to your marriage.
Our mentors will help you understand your emotions and those of your spouse, in order to manage them better.
Beliefs and Values
No matter how much you value the beliefs and thoughts of our elders, you should sometimes let go of some of them while keeping the rest.
Secondly, there are many beliefs that we ourselves have set in our brain that do not allow us to stay happy and do things that will ensure a peaceful household.
With us, you can identify these beliefs and break them to reach your maximum potential as a wife and encourage your husband to do same.
Time Management
51% of women report feeling stressed, compared to 43% of men after marriage.
One of the leading reasons for this is the greater burden of responsibilities women may have.
Coupled with our natural habit to overcommit we make things even more difficult for ourselves.
Mastering the skill of time management can relieve you from the unnecessary baggage of stress and help you choose your responsibilities and make commitments wisely.
Module – 4 Essence of a Meaningful Marriage
Our mentors make sure we complete our journey of making your home a maskan for all its inhabitants so that you and your family can always find peace there.
You will learn about external and internal self care so that you can be mindful of taking care of yourselves on first priority and learn practical ways to ensure self care.
You will also have discussions over the much needed topic: ensuring your respect in marriage and learn why it is necessary.
Role of intimacy is important and its importance will be taught to you.
An attitude of gratitude must be developed for a peaceful marriage and you will master the skill of gratitude in this last module with the help of our mentors.
“When I got to know about the program fee, I thought it was too much. But then I looked up the payment options and got a customized installment plan. Once the course was completed, I realized the fee was nothing compared to what I had learned so far and nothing compared to just how much we spend on a normal wedding. In return for a small fee I got a whole community of women and mentors who would help me solve any future problem in my life”
A participant of Batch 1
AS AN ALUMUNUS OF THIS COURSE YOU WILL BE ADDED TO OUR ALUMNI CLUB AND WILL BE ABLE TO ATTEND MONTHLY SESSIONS WITH OTHER ALUMNI. IN OUR ALUMNI YOU WILL BE ABLE TO FIND A COMMUNITY OF LIKE MINDED WOMEN WHO WILL HELP BUILD YOUR CONFIDENCE, SUPPORT YOU AND HELP SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS
“Attending these meetups is always therapeutic, like mind yoga. It makes the rest of my day peaceful just being around like minded people for some time”
Marriage Matters Alumnus
I want to achieve a happy marriage
VALUE OF THIS COURSE
3 MONTHS COURSE – 24 DAYS
24 Interactive Classes via Zoom
Guest Speaker Sessions, International Participants, Highly Qualified Mentors, Reflective Writing & A LOT MORE
Rs. 25000/- ONLY for Complete 3 MONTHS
Payment to be done by Bank Transfer/Easypaisa
Payment may be made in installments
For More Details Whatsapp: +92320-8367707 (PAK) OR +97150-3559786 (UAE) OR +61469-369852 (AUS)
About the Trainers:
Nyda Taqi is a passionate learner of life, a caring wife and a mother of 3 homeschooling girls. Her optimistic nature adds up to her practice as an NLP Practitioner and Relationship Coach. At the heart of what she aims to do is to help powerful souls remember just how powerful they are. Her experience in psychology, and working with relationships in a holistic framework, using stories with metaphors has given her the opportunity to serve women of various ages and walks of life.
She believes we all have what it takes to make our homes a Maskan.
Mrs. Humaira Salman is the founder and directress of Learners’ Resource Galaxy. Her diverse teaching and training experience along with her exposure to cognitive psychology has helped her work as a personal and professional counselor. A mother of 3 homeschoolers of different ages, she has also worked as a parenting coach and provided counselling to spouses. She has been in the field of education and training for more than 25 years.
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